Stoking the Fire to Keep Your Sexuality Alive

Sexual fantasies, experts aver not only prolong your sexuality, but also help in treating sexual dysfunction.

One of finest gifts nature has endowed men is fantasizing, it is the way that we harness the natural element is what matters. Experts believe that sexual fantasies help keep your interest in sex alive. It is not in the scope of this article to dwell upon the kind of fantasies that are healthy or perverse.

Nonetheless according to Masters and Johnson, in their research on human sexual response, forced sex-fantasy is one of the most common sexual daydreams of American women. In short, the fantasy is on the lines of a stranger knocking at the door, the women opening it, the man forcing his way in, tying her up and raping her.

The famous author of ‘Men in Love’ Nancy Friday in her book mentions, that man’s fantasy also centers on forcible rape. Subjugated by powerful women, a man in his fantasy allows the domination and authority exercised by the woman raping him.

Sex therapist counsel couples to play out each other’s fantasies, as a means to increase intimacy and passion. It is about exploring each other’s erotic thoughts and discovering the buried treasure. Sexual science illustrates two categories of sexual arousal, one is reflex-based and the other psychogenic stimuli.

While reflex-based stimulation is through physical touch, psychogenic is about mental stimulation or inciting sexy thoughts. Therefore, voyeurism fantasies within, peps up sexuality and keeps the embers burning eternally.